200905100934Motherhood...
"We think back through our mothers if we are women."
~Virginia Woolf
對女人來說，一切的回憶始自母親。
"The decision to have a child is to accept that your heart
will forever walk outside of your body."
~Katherine Hadley
生了孩子就要接受一個事實:
從此以後，你的心肝就要曝露在外面
接受風吹雨打
"I always wanted children,
but not until they were actually a part of my life
did I realize that I could love that fiercely or get that angry."
~Cokie Roberts
當了媽媽之後
才知道自己可以無條件完全的去愛人
發起脾氣也很嚇人
"The mother-child relationship is very paradoxical.
It requires the most intense love on the mother's side,
yet this love must help the child grow away from the mother and become fully independent."
~Erich Fromm
母子關係充滿矛盾
母親需要全心全意的愛小孩
但是母親又必須讓孩子能夠成長茁壯離開自己完全獨立
母愛的收與放
是每一個母親的人生習題
一輩子做不完的功課!
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